Matthew 5 (The Message) 38-42"Here's another old saying that deserves a second look: 'Eye for eye, tooth for tooth.' Is that going to get us anywhere? Here's what I propose: 'Don't hit back at all.' If someone strikes you, stand there and take it. If someone drags you into court and sues for the shirt off your back, gift-wrap your best coat and make a present of it. And if someone takes unfair advantage of you, use the occasion to practice the servant life. No more tit-for-tat stuff. Live generously.
In every relationship we have there is a give and take. The first question we should ask when meeting someone new is, “How is God speaking to me through this friend?” Seeing each person who comes into our lives as a messenger from God brings our relationship into a powerful light.
Clearly there are times when God speaks through the words and actions of a friend in a way that directly improves our lives. A friend who is generous and giving teaches us the same.
There also are those whom God places in our lives who are needy. They need help, money, physical care, some other assistance. They may be spiritually lost or bankrupt. These persons come into our lives giving us the chance to learn patience, compassion, generosity, kindness and faithfulness.
No friend is perfect, nor will you ever be the perfect friend. If you view your friends as those who are sent by God to improve and perfect you, you’ll begin to see what it’s like for Christ to be in relationship with you. Today, think about those people God has placed in your life. List them and make a note about what each has taught you.
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